How to pick the right guy now… so you don’t end up alone later

  Priorities change as you get older. What seems important in your 20’s and early 30’s (like the kind of car a guy drives, the clothes he wears, or the caliber of the restaurants he frequents) turns out not matter in the least once you reach your late 30’s and beyond. Read more

21 Things no single girl wants to hear over the holidays

Look, I’m not going to sugar coat it. The holidays are a crappy time to be single. The only thing that might make you feel better is realizing that they’re kind of a crappy time to be in a relationship too. For all of the joy and festivities there are this time of year, there’s a lot of anxiety and expectation and binge eating sugar cookies that don’t even taste that good. But, being single during the holidays does seem to make you a target for a lot of annoying chatter. So, I’ve decided to create a list of all of the things no single girl wants to hear over the holidays.

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Friends With Benefits: Can you handle it?

Girl and man discuss taking their relationship to the next level at coffee
Dear Emily, I just got out of a long-term relationship. I still talk to my ex all the time and we’re really good friends right now, even though we live in different cities. He and I never had the most exciting sex life while we were together, but now that I’m single, I’m ready to have my sex life back! So I was just wondering what your advice would be for someone who is newly single and physically ready, but maybe not entirely emotionally ready? Read more

Relationship Rules: Why Did My Girlfriend Dump Me?

Sometimes it is hard to see why a significant other dumps you. Though it may seem out of the blue, there are always underlying issues that we can't always see. BUT! That's why you have Dr. Rodman to decipher the issue and let you know what really happened! Read more

The Guilt Trip

Have you ever met a guy and on paper—he’s great. But in reality, you’re just not into it? And then you almost feel like something’s wrong with you for not liking him? Ugh, it’s the worst, and it happens to me all the time. The majority of my friends are in serious relationships or married (when did that happen?!), so I’ve quickly become the designated single person. I’m cool with it, for the most part. After all, it’s been almost four years now. Read more

5 Ways To Stay Healthy and Sexy This Winter

A temperatures nationwide are dropping, most of us are fighting the urge to hibernate on the couch with Netflix and pizza. Our inner monologue goes a little something like this: We'll work out after the holidays, it's simply too cold to go outside, nobody will notice if our bodies aren't as tight as they were in the spring--thanks, leggings and over-sized sweaters! There is one glaring problem with that kind of mentality. You'll know. You'll know that you're putting your health on hold for the holidays, and you'll definitely know when your skinny jeans are a bit too skinny. It doesn't feel good to let yourself go, even just for a season. Not feeling your best can take a serious toll on your confidence, which can have a direct effect on your dating success, more than your pants size ever could. Read more