If private matters are spilling over into work, then it’s not so much a question of self-control as it is scheduling. You need more downtime.
It may look like a situation at work is collapsing, but what’s really taking place is a realignment. Give it a few days to work itself out.
Problems in someone’s life shouldn’t engulf you. It’s the reason for setting up boundaries. It ensures their baggage stays in their overhead bin.
Valuable information arrives in the nick of time. Look for a Gemini or a Virgo to be the bearer of good news.
You like that people come to you with their problems and secrets, but ask a friend to leave out details that are better left to the imagination.
You don’t have to get mad nor do you have to get even. Say what you have to say in a precise and professional manner and you will make your point effectively.