You won’t get what you want on the first try or even the second. However this does a lot to improve your reach so that when you finally do grasp it, you’ll hold on to it.
Ask a grumpy type out for coffee today. Your goodwill gesture goes a long way towards thawing the ice.
It took a lot to build an “us” into a relationship. Now that you’ve bridged the gap between “me” and “you” you can truly begin a new chapter.
An offer creates a dilemma. Pass and wonder what if or accept and settle for what you can get now? Wait until after December 21st to decide.
You can’t divulge what was said, but you can certainly use it to push someone in the right direction. Just be subtle about it.
Someone who delights in making life difficult does you a good turn instead. It’s entirely unintentional so don’t say anything!
