You don’t like it when people get too possessive. Tell a love interest or controlling superior to give you space. You’re nobody’s trophy.
The only time people ramble is when there’s something to hide. Find a comfortable spot to listen. Their guilty secret will emerge eventually.
You have the upper hand in a conflict, so be nice. Your magnanimity persuades losing parties to yield without a fight.
At first you felt insulted being handed something a rival just turned down, but does it really matter? It’s still an amazing opportunity.
Success depends on how well you get along with someone who doesn’t respect you. This prods you to go further than you would have gone before.
Stick to your guns. The reason people poke holes in your plans is because they have no plans of their own. Your agenda will win out.


