Get over the “me against the world” mindset. It’s marginalizing you at a time when people want to hear what you have to say.
Colleagues asking advice isn’t new; what’s surprising is competitors asking too. It’s nice to know you’re respected across the board.
You know a decision’s final, so don’t be egged on by others’ sense of injustice. After all – if they feel that mad then they can fight their own battles.
It’s hard to overcome bouts of insecurity when it looks like everyone’s doing better than you, but that’s perception, not reality. Keep the faith.
What seems trivial to you makes a world of difference to someone else, so back up and examine the other point of view. You’ll be glad you did.
You were afraid you’d have to settle for the lesser of two evils until today. Now it looks like it will be the greater of two goods.
