Top 5 Vibrators for Couples on Valentine’s Day

If you’re nervous about inviting a third into the bedroom you’ve probably been asking yourself these questions: Will it hurt our relationship? Will it come between us and destroy what we have? Will we ever be able to enjoy sex just the two of us again? Calm down. Pour yourself a glass of vino and get some perspective. We’re talking about a vibrator here, not a threesome with another person. Besides, why get roses and chocolate for Valentine’s Day when you can have multiple orgasms? Celebrate V-day with your partner and one of these vibrating lovers. Read more

Top 5 Vibrators for Singles for Valentine’s Day (a.k.a. Singles Awareness Day)

You know those friends who won’t stop talking about their boyfriends? They go on and on about how he has the perfect penis. Their boyfriend is supposedly the most attentive, loving creature, and is the best at oral sex. “Someday you’ll understand.” The next time they want to tell you about their romantic Valentine’s Day plans and “perfect” sex life, tell them about your night. Eight orgasms in a half-hour. Maybe someday they’ll understand. Who needs a boyfriend when you can have seven inches of silicone, eight pulsation patterns, and six hours of battery life? Here are the 5 of the best boyfriends vibrators for all you amazing single ladies. Read more

How to approach Women (or Men!)

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Dear Emily,

How do I approach women? Growing up in SF during the seventies was not great for a man’s sense of masculine self, hearing what “pigs” men are. I choke all the time, even when I know a woman is into me…It’s like the Clockwork Orange treatment. Thanks, George Read more

Top 10 Sex Podcasts in 2013

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Thanks everyone for making this the best year of Sex with Emily yet. I couldn't do it without all the amazing (and sexy) porn stars, experts, and courageous men and women who shared their sex and relationship stories with me. And of course I couldn't do it without my listeners. Read more

How to have better sex in 2014

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Who needs traditional New Year’s Resolutions when you can check off “sex in a random bar bathroom” from your bucket list? You need some fun goals in 2014 to balance out your respectable adult goals to become a more organized, put-together person. Life isn’t a dress rehearsal, so get naked and start living the life you want in 2014. Here are some fun and sexy things you should add to your goals for 2014. Let the relationship and sexual resolutions begin! Read more

Sex With Emily’s Holiday Gift Guide

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I know you’re scrambling to find the perfect gift for the special man or woman in your life. Since I give advice all the time about how to make relationships run smoothly, I can also advise you on how to make your holidays run smoothly with the perfect gift. One question I’ve been getting a lot recently is, “Emily, can you help me think of something to get my (lover/spouse/crush) for (fill in holiday)?” And I say, “Of course I can help you!” For all of you who’ve asked, I’ve put together a list of some of my favorite holiday gift ideas. And no, they aren’t all sex toys, although you might see a few sprinkled in here and there. After all, it is a sexy time of year! So why not get the right gift this year that will ensure good loving all around.  Read more