Category Archives: The Men’s Room – Love and Relationship Advice From a Man For Women

The Dangers Of Dating A Momma’s Boy

Momma's boy with his mother
Congratulations to you! You’ve just started dating a Momma’s boy! You’re about to play second fiddle to a woman twice your age, and take on the role of additional care giver. I have to warn you, being the girlfriend of a Momma’s boy is no easy task. Why? Because these guys are used to Momma doing everything for them, and now you’ll be expected to do the same. I speak from experience because my own Dad was a Momma’s boy. I remember going to Grandmother’s house during the summer, and she geared everything around him. Read more

What Do His Mixed Signals Mean?

Woman looks for clarity on how to read his mixed signals
One minute he’s all over you, the next he’s avoiding all contact with you. One moment he’s desperate to see you, the next he’s always too “busy” to see you. What’s going on? Why is he giving you mixed signals, and what can you do when a man gives you mixed signals? It’s funny because I get these emails from women all the time, asking me, “Why is my guy acting like this?” Read more

How to Help a Man Deal with Erectile Dysfunction

Frustrated man deals with erectile dysfunction
The stats say around 1 in 10 men suffer from ongoing erectile dysfunction, and that something like 1 in 4 have trouble “getting hard” at least once during their life. But as a woman, what can you do if you’re in bed with a man with erectile dysfunction? Do you ignore it, or should you say something? Here are the 3 things every woman should remember when your man is having problems “performing” in the bedroom… Read more

How to get him to talk about his feelings?

Man discusses feelings with his girlfriend

David, How Do You Get Him To Talk About His Feelings?

Ahh one of the questions I see in my inbox at last 100 times a week (at a minimum.) “How do you get men to open up?” “Why won’t he talk to me?” “Why does he push me away?” Here’s something you need to understand about men. You can’t force a man to talk about his feelings. Asking him how he feels all the time, and bugging him to open up isn’t the way to do it. In fact, the more you push a man to show his emotional side, the more he’s going to run off and hide in his man cave! Read more

Don’t Get Scared to Get Down n’ Dirty

Girl on edge of bed after sex
I was reading some magazine where some very old-fashioned relationship “expert” was talking about being embarrassed hearing about how some women talk dirty in the bedroom. She was saying how she believed women should still be “ladies” and that the media was trivializing sex. Here’s the thing… Read more

Are YOU The Reason You Can’t Find Love?

Woman searches for love
Do you find most your dates end up going nowhere? Do find yourself sitting home alone on Saturday nights while most your friends are snuggling with their partners in front of a movie? Have you tried meeting a man online but ended up disappointed? Believe me. I get thousands of emails a week, and I hear it all. You met a guy who really wanted to be with you, and just as you opened up to him, he stopped calling and texting you. You don’t think online dating works. You feel like there are no good men out there. You feel unsexy and undesirable. You blame past relationships for ruining your self-confidence. No men approach you. There are no men in your age range available. Read more