5 Signs he’s being two-faced

Getting into a new relationship is basically like doing a big old trust fall into the arms of a stranger. You know what I mean? Relationships, even at the very beginning, are all about trust and when you’re just getting to know a dude, it can be tough to tell if he’s trustworthy or not. Here are some ways to figure out if he’s being two-faced or if the face you’re starting to fall for is the only one he has.

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What To Do When Someone Flakes

We've all been flaked on. We’ve made it easy to flake on people. It's so easy just to send a cowardly text to someone saying you can’t meet them an hour before you're supposed to hang out with them. We've made it so easy. Actually, not we. The designers of cell phones, the people who brought texting into the world, have made it easy for people to bail on other people at the last minute. Read more

Tie me Up: How to Try Bondage for the First Time

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“Let’s try bondage. I want you to tie me up and do me,” is something most men don’t mind hearing. My friend, let’s call him George, has waited his whole life for a woman to say these words. George is the kind of bloke who admits he watches porn all the time after a couple Old Fashions. They always confess to the sex expert that they want to tie a woman up just like in their favorite porn… Read more

10 tips for giving a great blow job

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I know, you already know how to give a blow job. I used to think so too when I first started my career as a sexologist. Then I talked to hundreds of men and women about their preferences and techniques. I was still pretty convinced I knew how to perform like a champ, but then I met Conner Habib, a gay man who happens to do porn (listen to my podcast with Conner Habib here). If anyone knows how to give a blow job it’s going to be a gay porn star. Here’s some of my advice, Conner’s advice, and all the advice I’ve received from my Sex with Emily listeners combined into one glorious blow job. Read more