Monthly Archives: January 2018
A lot of people use the term “ghosting” when it comes down to dating. For those of you who don't know what ghosting is or what people consider ghosting to be, let me give you the modern explanation of ghosting. Ghosting happens when you meet somebody, usually on a dating app or a website. You go out with them or you have a bunch of text conversations, and then all of a sudden… Read more
(March 20 - April 19):No one benefits from you feeling inadequate - except maybe that person who's playing you off a colleague to cover his/her own tracks.
(April 20 - May 20):Things have changed since a partner's fortunes were up and yours were down. With your star on the rise, you both need to adjust to the new balance of your relationship moving forward. Read more
(March 20 - April 19):Many people are eager to advise you so listen to what they have to say. Entertaining diverse ideas confirms your strongest hunches.
(April 20 - May 20):A proposition is very seductive. Checking it out doesn't mean you're serious. Besides: what's the harm in looking? It's OK as long as you don't touch. Read more
(March 20 - April 19):Not the day to take a stand. You'll only change it. This is less about principle and more about the shifting sands of popular support.
(April 20 - May 20):It feels like you can't pursue one objective without jeopardizing another. Actually you're too involved. Back away and get perspective. Read more
I was recently out to dinner and a fan stopped by my table (Yeah, this happens a lot!) on her way to the bathroom. She was on a date with her boyfriend and asked me if it was time for them to move in together. She told me that they’re 30 years old and have been dating for 18 months. She thought it was time, he thought it wasn’t. She wanted my expert opinion to break the tie. And you know what, I couldn’t tell her what to do because she hadn’t given me any of the relevant information I needed to make that call. Here’s what I told her actually mattered in determining if they should move in together. Read more