Monthly Archives: October 2014

The Lost Art Of Teasing: Turn it up for Great Sex

Teasing always gets a bad rap when it comes to dating, but when it comes to sex, it’s the best thing, since well sex. Teasing is the best way to start up something steamy and the longer you savor the suspense, the better. You know those delicious moments leading up to sex? Imagine if you could prolong all that sexual tension, the sizzling sense of anticipation and draw it out until you just can’t take it anymore. You have to have each other right then, right there, right now This is why I’m teaching you the art of teasing. Read more

The Most Important Dating Tip Of Them All

This concept has been preached about by countless dating gurus, a book was written about it, and a movie was produced, but it is always good to reiterate that sometimes… he is just not that into you. I used to do the same thing that most women do. When a guy didn’t call me back or ask me out after what I considered to be a great date, I would immediately come up with a thousand scenarios about why that may have happened. He lost his phone. He was busy at work. He called but the call never went through! You name it, I just like all of you, have tried to rationalize it. Read more

As the World Turns

In Atlanta, A person’s world can revolve around different things: their career, their family, their health, and when they’re fortunate to have one: their love interest. However when the dynamics change and one of those things are no longer a part of their world, nine times out of ten, a person  begins to center their world around something (or someone) else. Read more

5 Dates every couple has to do before fall is over

Fall is a wonderful time to be in love. Really though, when isn’t? But, I particularly love fall romance because there’s this ticking clock on the good weather. You feel like you have to do every possible outdoor activities one last time before Old Man Winter really sets in. Here are my favorite fall dates that I think you need to do with your man before fall is over. Read more

What To Do When You’re The “Anxious Girlfriend”

Anxious Girlfriend writes, I moved in with my boyfriend recently and our relationship is not going too well.  I am 29 and he is 31, we have dated for two and a half years and lived together for two months.  Prior to moving in together, we discussed engagement but he wants to put it off another year or two till he is financially more stable.  Basically, I feel that he is not putting our relationship first.  If he takes off work, it’s to hang out with friends, not to spend it with me.  He isn’t much for housework or planning activities for us.  I have had trust issues due to my ex cheating on me, and I’ve caught my boyfriend in a couple of small lies, and have also checked his phone a couple of times (I didn’t find anything).  I don’t know if my anxiety is the issue or if he’s having trouble adjusting to living together.  Please help, I don’t want to ruin this relationship if the issue is me. Read more

The Trials and Tribulations of Tinder

I swiped right, and then those magical words appeared on my phone, “It’s a Match!”  It’s kind of exhilarating to see who thought I was attractive enough to swipe right.  Now here comes the tricky part: will this hot guy actually message me or will our match go into the Tinder abyss?  I was fortunate enough to receive messages from pretty attractive men, but that is pretty much where it ended.  So if you ask me, Boston Tinder has left plenty to be desired.  The only success stories I can share from this experience are the encounters that I wish I could make up. Read more