Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

3 Things You Can Do If He’s Not Getting Erect

frustrated man can't get erect
You’ve started dating this great guy. You’re ready to take your relationship to the next level, and decide to start having sex. The big night arrives. You smell fantastic. You look gorgeous. You even treated him to a sexy lap dance. To show him how serious you are about him, you go down on him, but once you’re there you see he’s as erect as a string of spaghetti you threw at the wall to see if it was cooked. Now what? You want him to enjoy sex with you. How comes he isn’t hard, and what can you do about it? Here are three things to think about… Read more

You’ll find love when you least expect it…or will you? (Part 1)

woman searches for love, find love when you least expect it?

Being single can feel miserable, and it can become worse when well-meaning friends try to make you feel better. They offer encouragements such as “There are plenty of fish in the sea” or “You still have time.” But one riles me up more than any others: “You’ll find love when you least expect it.” Let’s see….would that kind of thinking work in other areas of life?

You’ll find a job when you least expect it. You’ll find a home when you least expect it. You’ll get a great body when you least expect it. You’ll make money when you least expect it. Of course not. Then why should we take a passive approach to love when we don’t do so in other areas of our lives? We update our resumes, network and spend hours hunting online for a good job. We talk to realtors and bankers and get our finances in order when we buy a home. Although some of us have great metabolisms, the rest of us have to work out and eat healthy to stay in shape. And since money doesn’t grow on trees, we have to work for it, budget it and save it. Read more

5 New Year’s resolutions every single girl should make

woman writes new years resolutions
Hear that? It’s the clock ticking down on 2013. It’s time to say sayonara to last year and hello to 2014. I know it’s cliché, but I love to start a new year off with resolutions. It’s just the perfect time to reflect, set some goals and look forward to making your future even better than your past. I tend to keep my most personal resolutions to myself. I weirdly treat them like birthday wishes and don’t share them because then they might not come true. So, don’t ask me to share mine! But, if you’re a single girl, I have some resolutions that should be on your list for 2014. Read more

Why 2014 Will Rock

Couple celebrates the possibilities of the new year
What will you reflect on this year? As the last moments of 2013 disappear and the new year comes into focus, what did you embrace and what did you learn last year? What was your one defining moment…what was the biggest lesson you learned last year? Moving forward, how are you going to make 2014 spectacular? Join David and I for a fantastic, year-end podcast! It’s going to blow you away. Read more

When to Take Your Honeymoon

A couple relaxes on their honeymoon
When it comes to planning your honeymoon, the timing of your honeymoon can be a very tricky issue.  Do you want a grand send-off from your wedding reception complete with sparklers, fireworks, and a vintage Bentley?  Or do you want to spend more time with your friends and family, especially those who came into town for your wedding, the next day at your post-wedding brunch and depart from there?  Or do you think you and your fiancé will need a couple of days (or even a couple of weeks) to decompress, pack for your honeymoon, and get your furry loved ones to the pet-hotel before leaving for your honeymoon? Read more

#AskPatti: Booty call bounceback, bad boyfriends, his family & more!

Ask Patti Stanger
Hello, hello! And happy 2014. I have a good feeling about this year! A very, very good feeling! I think it’s going to be a super one for me and for all of you guys. What better way to kick it off than with some relationship Q&As from #AskPatti? So, let’s dive in, shall we? Read more