It’s awkward knowing both sides of a story, but given all the finger pointing going on it’s best to keep it to yourself for now.
Let a judgment call stand. Disputing it will only drain energies that are better focused elsewhere. You can weather this.
Blaming others shows that you aren’t in control. Insist that the buck stops with you and one day you’ll collect on the glory as well.
Forcing someone’s hand is a recipe for disaster so find something to attract their interest instead. You’ll gain their full cooperation.
Colleagues are far too concerned with their own interests. Point out that no one will get anywhere if there isn’t a stronger show of solidarity.
A loss could be finessed into a gain if you’re willing to push the envelope. Take matters to the limit, but stop short of going too far.
