A loved one could use your moral support with a difficult choice. Be forthcoming and they’ll be there for you when you face a similar dilemma one day.
Adopting the ostrich policy won’t help you out at work because you’ll eventually have to choose sides. You can still take your time making up your mind.
You don’t like putting an association at risk in order to take the next step forward, but there’s no other way. Afterwards do some damage control.
The fact that your hands are tied is a plus, not a minus. This keeps you from appearing too overeager which only increases your desirability.
Ultimately it doesn’t matter who’s right. A simple acknowledgement of hurt feelings is all it takes to win back someone’s support.
An argument over finances may be fueled by lingering resentments. Address what’s going on underneath. The money matter can be settled another time.
