An argument over finances may be fueled by lingering resentments. Address what’s going on underneath. The money matter can be settled another time.
Don’t pass up a job opportunity. Just because it doesn’t fit into current plans doesn’t mean you can’t find a way to make it work.
Take a few steps back so you can regain your bearings. Tell others who think you’re bailing out that you need a breather.
You’ve been there for others. Now it’s time for them to be there for you. Though it feels awkward: speak up. Loved ones and friends are happy to repay the favor.
Accept what people can give rather than what you think they should and you’ll be happier with the results. You may even be pleasantly surprised.
Do you still want what you were after? It’s a worthwhile question. The wish may not stand up to the fulfillment.


