When Is Too Soon To Move On?

Anyone else as shocked by Jennifer Lawrence moving on to dating Chris Martin just weeks after her split with longtime boyfriend Nicholas Hoult? I was downright stunned at first, mostly because I think Jennifer Lawrence is super young and needs to discover herself as a single lady before diving into another relationship. That being said, Jennifer Lawrence is very private about her romantic life, which I very much applaud. So, who knows when she actually broke up with Nicholas Hoult? It could have been weeks or even months before we found out. But, this piece of celeb gossip got me thinking about moving on and when is too soon. Here are some questions to ask yourself before you move on to a new relationship. Read more

My Dad’s Jokes Are Ruining My Love Life

  I finally found a young single guy who was willing to ask me a dating question!  This is just the beginning.  Mid-twenties guys are great.  Everyone wants to date them, and by everyone, I mean mid-twenties women, who are my main readers here.  Also older women, but let’s not get into the cougar dynamic right now. So, please tell all your brothers/new guys at work/mannies/absurdly hot random guys at the gym to write in with more questions so I don't lose momentum with this key demographic. Read more

3 Ways Being Dumped Can Make You Better

The end of a relationship is never easy, especially when you are the one on the "dumpee" end of the stick. It's normal to fall down a slight shame spiral, wondering what you did wrong and why nobody loves you and probably never will. While it's okay to indulge in a 48 hour Netflix, Pinkberry and self pity binge, when you come out the other side you might find that are actually much better off. Sometimes being dumped can actually make you better, so next time you see your ex, tell him thank-you. It will really freak him out. Read more

The Power Of I Love You!

  Today I want us to work through an exercise. I want us to work on an exercise in becoming love. That’s right. I want you to become love. I want you to start really experiencing love energy in its purest form. Today, just for one day, I want you to forget about your search for “the one.” Just for today, I want you to stop worrying about finding the perfect boyfriend or girlfriend. I want you to do one thing and one thing only. I want you to tell all the people in your life that you love them. Read more

What Age Should You Start Having Kids?

What's the "right" age to get pregnant for the first time?  33- according to actress Kirsten Dunst.

"I'm in baby mode because two of my really good friends are pregnant right now," Dunst, who's 33rd birthday is next April, said in a recent interview with Red magazine.  "I think 33 is a good age to have your first baby."

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Summer Fling or Real Thing?

Sparks fly when the warm weather comes around for three months. There is a specific stigma about summer flings that takes us away from the mindset of turning our summer chick into our year long lady. The sense of summer is followed by nothing short of a fresh positive perspective and, truthfully, grants us the ability to take things lighter than when the cold months drift around. The change in attitude completely alters the outlook of any relationship. It’s easy in the summer and everything fits together just right. But, how do you know if it’s just a summer fling or if this is something that could be the real thing? Here are three points that may help. Read more