You’re not nitpicking. It’s the people who say they aren’t who are being disingenuous. After all – if didn’t don’t matter, why point it out?
Don’t take anyone’s word for it – not even your nearest and dearest. Trust in your own judgment. It’s more on target than theirs.
A rival’s power lies in getting you to psych yourself out. Keep insecurities under lock and key and s/he has no ammunition.
There’s a lot of behind-the-scenes action taking place. Thankfully you can trust those who represent your interests.
Sometimes it’s not about finding the right guy, but rather opening up your heart and letting the right guy find you.
You’re in a precarious position where you must find a way for two competitive interests to dovetail. It’s extra work, but will ultimately be advantageous.
