You hoped a judgment would resolve matters, but it’s inconclusive. Meet with the other party. You may be able to settle this on your own.
A friend who’s already asked a lot now asks for more. Say no. It’s as much for your benefit as it is for his/hers.
It’s hard to forgive when you think about how you’ve been done wrong, but tear up the scorecard or you’ll never move on.
You have to follow your conscience on a tough judgment call. It helps to remember that others are following their conscience as well.
There’s nothing wrong with seeing both sides of a matter as long as you don’t say anything. You’d only reignite a controversy best left untouched.
Be sensitive to people’s wounded egos. They crave your approval more than you know.


