If people think they can back out of an agreement then they’ve got another “think” coming. Hold them to their word.
It’s hard to watch a loved one make mistakes, but this person needs to discover things for himself. Be supportive and bite your lip.
Efforts to be objective could lead you to suppress your own feelings. Make a switch and try being more subjective for a change.
Your ability to empathize with each position and then to find the through-line that connects them all is why everyone seeks your advice today.
Your fun-loving spirit brings someone out of his/her funk. Your joie de vivre is heaven-sent.
That offer on the table doesn’t look like much now, but it will given time. Be patient and let developments unfold organically.


