That bane to your existence is also in a position to help. Lower your guard and an opponent becomes a friend.
Looks like someone’s getting cold feet, but don’t get discouraged. Be generous and supportive and this person will regain their confidence.
Never underestimate the power of grace. In a competitive world of sharp elbows and stomping feet, it’s often the person who’s refined and poised who stands out.
The new kid on the block may feel like a threat, but s/he could also be the impetus for healthy competition. Think about it.
You thought you overshot the mark, but now it looks like you undershot it. Be ready to scramble to make up the difference.
It’s OK to raise the bar every time people meet your expectations, but be sure to praise them first. Otherwise they’ll feel like there’s no pleasing you and they’ll stop trying so hard.
