Are people dead-set on challenging you? Perhaps. But the constant agitation gets you to exercise the authority you’ve kept under wraps.
You’re accused of stepping on people’s toes but sometimes that’s the only way to get things done. People are free to step back.
Don’t lose sleep over a dispute. That’s why you have an agreement in place. Simply refer to the pertinent clause or line in your contract and it’s settled.
Don’t let a rival know that s/he got under your skin. Be cool. The best way to win a contest is to look like you’re not competing.
Showing you’re as fallible as anyone else is a plus today. It makes you look human. Cop to a mistake – even if you have to make one up.
You’re convinced that someone’s holding out on you. Could it be that this person just feels intimidated? Lighten up and s/he will be more forthcoming.
