Be available.
How many of you have written letters to your future lover?
How many of you have written to your future partner?
How many of you have written letters to your future wife or your future husband?
Sounds kind of corny in a way to most of you, right? But if you don’t write a letter to your future lover or your future partner, how are they ever going to energetically receive it?
I was sitting at lunch today with my friend, Brad.
And the thing we were talking about that really resonated with both of us so much was being available.
In all aspects of my life, I’m tired of listening to people talk the talk.
It’s exhausting. It’s exhausting to hear people talk about all they’re going to do or all the great ideas they have and then they just can’t implement any of them.
I’m tired of all the women that say they want something and then when you meet them, they’re scared to be open. They’re scared to be available.
So this letter is my letter to my future lover. You can use it, tweak it and change it to fit you, but I want all of you to write letters to your future lover, your future partner, your future husband or your future wife, because it’s the only way that they will show up for you.
I want my future lover to be available.
You see, here’s an insight into my life.
When I’m not with my daughter, I’m pretty much home at night out of choice. I run some errands, maybe run, go get something to eat, but most nights I’m home. I’m not a fraternity boy that needs to be out having a drink with a friend or going to events, constantly being busy in my life. I don’t need that. And yet, I run into so many women who are unavailable. Their lives being so full, always doing something. Going to events.
Dinner with a girlfriend.
It seems like so many women that I meet have schedules. Whenever I ask them to get together, they’re always like, “let me check my schedule and see if any night this week even works.”
Sometimes I think they read that book The Game. You have to be unavailable because a man will chase you then. But for me, I want my future lover to be available. When I see a woman that’s scheduled her life so much, I see somebody who’s avoiding intimacy because to be intimate means being with another person.
I’m just seeing so many women who are really only interesting being so busy. So, dear future lover, be available. Be available when a great man like myself shows up. You’ve been living this life of being unavailable for so long and I totally understand that. Women really hate to be alone. Men don’t mind it as much, but women seem to hate to be alone.
So understand now that you’ve scheduled yourself and made yourself busy, but when I come along, I want you to recognize me as a unique person just like I recognize you as a unique and evolved high vibrational being.
Be available. Being this busy, filling your life with day to day business is definitely a good way to not be alone, but aren’t you tired of being so busy? Don’t you just want to fall in love and connect with a man, connect with somebody?
Be available. My future lover is available to me when I show up, as I am to her.
