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Anita uses relationship science to give practical advice that brings results. She is frequently quoted in the media, and has been featured in Oprah Magazine, The Today Show, Dr. Oz, Cosmopolitan, People, Men’s Health Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Brides, and many more.
Anita is a licensed marriage & family therapist (LMFT) and received her Master’s degree in the nationally accredited Marital & Family therapy program from the University of San Diego. She works with singles, individuals, and couples.
Anita’s book, First Comes Us, The Busy Couple’s Guide to Lasting Love, is available on Amazon.
Posts by Anita
7 Things You Should Look For in a Long-term Partner
Posted at 10:30 am on August 18, 2015
If you’re like most of my clients, you probably have a “type” when you’re looking for love. But after working with couples for almost a decade, I’ve found that there are traits in you and a partner that will help … Continue reading →Read more
Why Men Won’t Commit
Posted at 1:00 pm on July 1, 2015
If there’s one thing that pains me to hear from my female clients, it’s that the guy they’re dating is scared of commitment. In the dating stage it may look like inconsistent contact, last minute get togethers or booty calls. … Continue reading →Read more
Dear Anita, I was dating this guy for almost a year and he just dumped me. It took me by surprise and now I’m struggling. I think my friends are tired of hearing about him. It’s been three months since … Continue reading →Read more
When I hang out with my friends Jacqui and Matthew, it’s always a good time. They’re very passionate, opinionated and playful. Sometimes they may say something to the other that crosses the line. But what they usually do next is … Continue reading →Read more
I know, I know…some of you are rolling your eyes at the title of my blog. Seriously, what can The Bachelor teach us about love? When the first season aired in 2002, I too thought, What are these women thinking? … Continue reading →Read more
I received a question from a reader: “Dear Anita, I’m always single. I read advice online and my friends try to help me. What advice would you give me? I’d like to find love in 2015.” – Single in San … Continue reading →Read more