#AskPatti: Ex talk, BF mommy drama, bad kissers & more!

Hello, again! Any how was your week? Did you see the show this week? It was so crazy for me to watch and relive all that stuff with Justin. He was legit one of the worst millionaires I’ve ever had to work with. Watching gave my the heebie jeebies all over again. Aside from that, though, my week was fan-freaking-tastic. I got a lot accomplished at work, worked out a ton and had such an awesome live chat with you all! Couldn’t have asked for anything better. Now, on to your questions!

Because he’s not over her. I know that’s crappy news to hear and I’m so sorry to be the one to tell you, but think about it. When in your life have you been a blabbermouth about your ex? It’s when you’re still thinking about him all the time. And if you’re still thinking about him and talking about him, it means that you’re not over him. And if your guy is talking about his ex, it means that he’s still thinking about her, which means that he’s not over her. I say talk to him about it and let it know how it makes you feel. If he can’t stop bringing her up once he knows that you don’t like it, it’s time to move on to someone who’s ready to focus on you.
Yes! If your boyfriend does anything on the regular to make you feel crappy, it’s time to kiss him goodbye and move on to someone who will spend their effort making you feel awesome. And any man who takes his mom’s side over his girlfriend’s has a ton of mommy issues. Better to back out of that relationship before you’re in too deep and have to deal with all of his mama drama.
Yeah. Bad kissing is a deal breaker in my book. If you really like him and smooching is the only thing that’s less than perfect about him, then it’s probably worth taking some time to see if you can improve his kissing style. A little positive reinforcement, focusing on what you like and what you want to see more of, can go a long way into improving a guy’s performance in the sack and with kissing.
OF COURSE YOU DO! The right guy will understand your values and be excited to offer you the commitment you need to take your physical relationship to the next level. Don’t ever compromise your beliefs because you’ve been dealing with lowlife guys who try to pressure you into sex. The right guy will roll around and make you feel amazing about your convictions. Trust me.

That’s all for this week, loves. Talk to you soon!