Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

The Resurrection of a Vampire

How many of you have been through a divorce? How many of you have been through a divorce that took years? How many of you were separated for years before your divorce, and then you had to go through everything all over again? I've called this process the resurrection of a vampire. Read more

How to compromise in a mixed faith relationship

My friend just told me about a wedding she went to where a Hindi man married a Catholic woman. There was a Hindi ceremony one day, a Catholic ceremony the next and the following day, there was a non-denominational ceremony. It was a whole lot of ceremonies for one wedding. But, that’s what worked for this couple navigating a mixed-faith marriage. If you’re in a relationship with someone of another faith, there’s going to be a lot of compromise in your future. Here are my tips for how to go about it. Read more

The True Definition Of Ghosting

A lot of people use the term “ghosting” when it comes down to dating. For those of you who don't know what ghosting is or what people consider ghosting to be, let me give you the modern explanation of ghosting. Ghosting happens when you meet somebody, usually on a dating app or a website. You go out with them or you have a bunch of text conversations, and then all of a sudden… Read more

When should you move in with him?

I was recently out to dinner and a fan stopped by my table (Yeah, this happens a lot!) on her way to the bathroom. She was on a date with her boyfriend and asked me if it was time for them to move in together. She told me that they’re 30 years old and have been dating for 18 months. She thought it was time, he thought it wasn’t. She wanted my expert opinion to break the tie. And you know what, I couldn’t tell her what to do because she hadn’t given me any of the relevant information I needed to make that call. Here’s what I told her actually mattered in determining if they should move in together. Read more

Divorce: The #1 Thing You Need To Know

I'm going to share with you a story. A story that has nothing to do with divorce, but I think it will resonate with you when it comes down to getting a divorce. First off, divorce is a necessary thing. There's no reason that two people who don't love each other should stay together. Read more

Is your family waving a relationship red flag you shouldn’t ignore?

One of my best friends just came to me with a crisis. She brought her new beau home and her sister didn't like him. Just flat out said "nope" to this new guy. Her sister said the newbie reminded her too much of my friend's horrible ex and that my friend is going to fall into the same dud dude trap again. Woof! That's tough to hear, right? My friend is really into this man and thinks he's nothing like her icky ex. But, she's freaking because she's not sure if she should listen to her sister. Read more