Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

How a trip to visit his family can actually be romantic

Spending a weekend, or even a week, visiting your man’s family doesn’t have to be a romance desert. Even though I doubt a trip home is anybody’s first choice for a couple’s getaway, a trip home can be incredibly romantic. Don’t see how hanging in the suburbs with a couple of retired people who only talk about bridge can romantic? Well, let me example. Read more

How To Know If You Had An Orgasm

Well, if you're a man, it's pretty simple. I don't need to describe it here because we all know exactly how a man orgasms. But I hear over and over again from women: “I'm really not quite sure I've orgasmed.” “I think I have, but I'm not sure.” My answer to that is Read more

How to deal when your family doesn’t know your man

A friend of mine has been dating her man for about 18 months and they’re ready to get engaged. I’m so happy for her and she’s so happy for herself, but she confessed to me that she’s a little bummed her parents and brothers don’t know her dude better. She lives in Los Angeles now and her family is back on the East Coast. They’ve met her man a few times and he even came home with her once, but he’s probably spent a total of five days with her family. Read more

3 Things you can learn from your first time at his place

Going back to a dude’s place for the first time is big step. Now, I’m no prude. I know this sometimes happens the night you meet a man. And I’m all for one night stands if that’s what you need, sister! Go for it! However, your one night stand men aren’t your forever men and they aren’t what this post is about. I’m talking about the first time you go over to a dude’s house when you’re considering seriously dating him. This home visit should probably fall somewhere between your first kiss and your convo about being exclusive. Read more

The Number One Reason Why Men Need Validation

This is for all you women out there who so desperately want to find love. First off, I'm 100% on your side. I truly want you to find love. And a lot of the reasons why you don't find love are not particularly your fault. I am fully aware that men in today's modern society have become tactical in so many different ways. Men suffer from a disease called “approach anxiety” and have a complete sense of fear when it comes down to approaching women on all levels. Read more

5 Things to do if he won’t propose

You found the dude you’re going to marry... you think. He has everything you’ve ever hoped for in a partner and is basically perfect except for one small thing... he won’t get down on one knee and pop the question. You’ve been waiting and waiting, but there have been no steps forward toward engagement. I get it, girl. I’ve been there myself. This can be totally infuriating and make you question your entire relationship. Before you totally spin out, take a deep breath and keep reading. Here are five things to do if your man just won’t propose. Read more