Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

What to do if your partner has a drinking problem

A friend of mine is coming to terms with the fact that her husband is an addict - drinking. It’s been really hard for both of them. They’ve been married for a while and he’s been relatively high functioning. He’s successful professionally and can stay sober for stretches of time. When he falls off the wagon though, he falls hard. Recently those hard falls have been more and more frequent and my friend can’t ignore them or write them off any more. She asked me how I think she should handle it. Here’s what I told her Read more

My Foolproof Way To Expose The Real Relationship

I have a rule, and when I follow it, it works out perfectly. I call it 30/60/91/20, and it’s my foolproof way to expose someone for who they truly are. Here’s how it works. The First 30 Days When you meet someone new, you're under the influence of love like there's no tomorrow. The person can literally murder somebody in front of you, and you won't even notice it. Read more

3 Things you’re doing that scare off millionaire men

Millionaire men are their own species that’s a subset of normal men. When it comes to finding a woman to date, they look for most of the same criteria normal men do and then some. Bottom line is if you’re not putting in the effort the attract a normal dude, you’re never going to hook a millionaire man. But, even if you’re pulling out all the stops to attract a normal guy, you still could be falling way short on reeling in a millionaire man. In fact, you could be scaring them off. Here are three things that could be the problem. Read more

The easiest way to make your days sexier

First impressions are critical when it comes to dating. Literally nothing’s more effective in making a match than instant sex appeal. But, so many of my clients don’t want to wear their sexiness on their sleeves, especially during the day. As a professional woman looking for love, I get it. You want to be attractive all day long and obviously don’t want to miss any potential romantic connections, but you’re not about leading with sex during daylight hours. So, how do you make yourself sexy during the day without feeling trashy? Easy! Eye of Love! Read more

The right time to ask if he wants kids

A lot of my girlfriends and clients in their late 20s and early 30s have shared the same experience with me. They’ve gotten in deep with a dude, brought up their timelines for having kids and the guy said he doesn’t want kids. By that point, the ladies have wasted months, if not years, of their time dating someone they could never end up with and they feel terrible about it. But, when was the right time to bring having kids up? It only makes sense to ask about kids when you’re serious about the guy, right? Wrong! Don’t waste your time (or his) by waiting to ask about having kids together. You should do it way earlier, no matter if you want kids or don’t. Here are the right times to ask if he wants kids. Read more

We All Pick The Wrong Person From Time To Time

Over Labor Day Weekend, as I was going through my life, my relationships, working with a great client, I realized something. From time to time, we all pick shitty people in our lives. If I look back at all of my relationships, I've done pretty well. I've had a couple of bad ones in there, but I've done really well. We've all picked men or women who are totally wrong for us, and we've all got battle scars from past relationships. I call it PTDD, Post-Traumatic Dating Disorder. Or PTRD, Post-Traumatic Relationship Disorder. We all have it. The question is Read more