Tie me Up: How to Try Bondage for the First Time

Bondage materials

“Let’s try bondage. I want you to tie me up and do me,” is something most men don’t mind hearing. My friend, let’s call him George, has waited his whole life for a woman to say these words. George is the kind of bloke who admits he watches porn all the time after a couple […]

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10 tips for giving a great blow job

top 10 tips for giving a great blow job

I know, you already know how to give a blow job. I used to think so too when I first started my career as a sexologist. Then I talked to hundreds of men and women about their preferences and techniques. I was still pretty convinced I knew how to perform like a champ, but then […]

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Help! Should I make a sex tape with my boyfriend?

Sex tapes have been a “hot topic” for a while now. From Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian, to the new movie starring Cameron Diaz, sex tapes get people talking. But what happens when your partner wants to make one? Is it the best idea or should you steer clear? As always, Emily has your answer.

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8 Ways to Make Masturbation Even Better

Even if you think masturbation is the only thing you’ve mastered in adulthood, there are always new ways to do you. Think about it this way: would you have sex with the same person, the exact same way every time? I didn’t think so. Then why would you treat yourself that way? As Woody Allen […]

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The Most Important SEXercise You’re Not Doing… Yet!

Ever been contemplating a visit to the gym and thought “I wish someone could just take my spinning class for me and I could continue to sit here eating my cheez-its?” We’ve all had those days where we wish someone else could sweat in our stead while still reaping the benefits of flatter abs or […]

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Be The Change You Want To See in The Bedroom: How to Initiate Sex More

Q: Hi Emily, I have a question regarding sex with my fiance. We really only have sex on the weekends, maybe once or twice on Saturday or on Sunday morning. He works long hours and is often very tired after work, and he has stated on multiple occasions that he doesn’t feel like having sex […]

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