How to Get Your Man to Step Up His Oral Sex Game

Dear Emily, Recently I have been dealing with an issue that I can’t seem to wrap my head around: I’m in love with a man who is absolutely awful at performing oral sex. He doesn’t go down on me very often, but when he does it’s sloppy and rough and all over the place – […]

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Bad in Bed

Dear Emily, I recently started dating a guy (a great guy, actually!) and things are going really well. There’s only one problem… I’m afraid to have sex with him! We’ve been seeing each other for almost two months now and we still haven’t done the deed. It’s not that I’m not attracted to him or […]

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How to Have Hot Summer Sex (Without Breaking a Sweat)

Summer is upon us. Along with longer days and hotter nights, summer brings a sense of freedom and spontaneity, like anything is possible. Unless that “anything” involves generating any kind of body heat.

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Summer Lovin’: 3 Reasons Why This Is Your Dating Season

There’s nothing worse than standing in the grocery checkout line during the summer. Every magazine appears to be staring you in the face, shouting, “Hey, it’s bikini season, do you really think you should be buying that pint of Chunky Monkey?” You eye your cart and consider removing the offensive items, wondering if it’s all […]

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Deep Breathing For Better Sex

Stop the O-Blocking: Breathe Deeply For Better Sex Q: Dear Emily In the past year, I have been on a mission to have regular orgasms and since I’m currently single, this has been mostly a solo mission. I’ve been taking all of your advice: I’ve got the sex toys and the lube, I know where […]

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Are you Cliterate?

Okay, you might be a little confused, and that’s okay! Let me start by explaining the term Cliteracy. Cliteracy (n.) The art of being knowledgeable and skilled in the workings and details of female anatomy. Many of you may be thinking, “Okay, well I know what I’ve got going on down there. The clitoris is […]

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