The Secret To Being A Better Flirt

The key to flirting is to have an inquisitive mind. Having an inquisitive mind is having a flirtatious mind. Flirting is really all about curiosity. It's amazing that how many people don't know how to flirt, or choose not to. When I'm on Bumble (which by the way is fun), or any other dating app, or any other way to meet, it's amazing how many people don't ask questions at all. Read more

What to do if you know he has a secret

I was seriously just in a bad sitcom over the weekend. It was one of my girlfriend’s birthdays (a big one!) and her new-ish boyfriend decided to throw her a surprise party. It was really sweet. He went the distance and flew in her family, contacted all of her friends and coordinated a night full of all of her favorite things. The one snag was that she caught on to him. Well, kinda. She knew he was keeping a big secret from her and flipped out. Read more

When it’s OK to have a secret relationship

I was watching the Shahs of Sunset reunion—yes, I’m that far behind on my TV! It’s been a busy summer!—and Asa was taking a lot of shit for keeping her relationship off camera. Even though they were pushing her on it, the entire cast did agree that her relationship was going to last the longest out of all of theirs because she was keeping it private. That got me thinking about how sometimes secret relationships are the best relationships. When it comes to happiness in a relationship, it’s now about how happy you seem to everyone else. It’s about how happy you actually are. Read more