Keeping in touch with an ex

We all know looking for the one is no easy task. It can happen in the blink of an eye or could take eons. During your quest for love, you’ll cross many speed bumps. These speed bumps are your exes. Right for you at the time, but not right for you forever. A lot of times when we dissolve a relationship, both parties move on to bigger and better things, continue new adventures and go on their merry ways. Every now and then, there are hangers -- exes that need to be EXterminated. Sure, you could be friends with your ex. Maybe you were friends before you even got together, but is that really advantageous to your quest for love -- to have that person always hanging around to potentially mess up your love energy? Read more

How and why to staycation with your lover

Rachel and Destin on a stay-cation with Sin Halo
Everyone needs a little break from the madness that we call life. Between matchmaking, movie making, TV filming and Sin Halo raising, we know all too well about needing some serious R&R! For most people, it’s tough to get away for a long period of time -- not to mention the tons of cash it takes. With a schedule that is all over the map, it's hard for us, too! So we like to go on staycations where we get away while staying close to home. Every staycation can be as easy breezy or extravagant as you like… or can afford. Here are some great ideas that Destin and I have done in the past. Read more

Sex: It’s gametime!

So, you’re a few months into the relationship and you’ve noticed that the heat and passion may have slightly fizzled. Not necessarily a drastic change - but maybe you don’t kiss as much as you used to or sex is now once a week, if you’re lucky, and heavy petting is left only for the dogs. You’re simply not putting as much effort into wooing as you used to and its time to inject the fun back into your sex life, before its too late. Okay kids, Sex Games 101 is now in session. Take off your pants and get ready for a night of fun! (Wait only a night?) Read more

Sex after marriage according to science

sex after marriage statistics
We’ve all heard the horror stories about how married people do not have sex, but recent studies have shown that this is not the case. According to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, which surveyed nearly six-thousand people in 2010, those who have put a ring on it are getting it on more than single people are. Not only are married couples getting laid more, but the sex has more variation, says sexual health expert Dr. Laura Burman. According to the study, that includes more oral sex than those who are unattached. In fact, 61 percent of the singles in the survey have not had sex in over a year. So much for the idea that being single means you’re getting laid. Read more

Makin’ Love with Rachel and Destin: Get to know us

Makin' Love with Rachel and Destin
We are so happy to be here! You all know us as Patti’s left and right hand on Millionaire Matchmaker, but did you know that we are also the bread and butter in the REAL business, Millionaire's Club?! Yes, we not only help run the company, but we also have clients of our very own and are TRUE matchmakers. How do you like them apples?! Read more

Get your hubby’s attention by learning to flirt again

Learn to flirt with your husband again!
Married ladies, if you want to spice up your marriage or get your husband’s attention, think back to the woman he took out on your first few dates. It can all be as simple as making it a point to look you're best whenever he’s around. Play up a favorite feature and throw on a sexy dress or a flattering pair of jeans. Get yourself into the flirting mood by bringing back your sexiness -- get some exercise, spend a little time fantasizing about him, read Fifty Shades of Grey. Whatever gets you feeling hot and attractive. Read more