Make a move or forever hold your peace

Woman waits for a kiss
Is he EVER going to kiss me!? Ahhhh.  Is there something wrong with me? Is he not attracted to me? Yes, we have all been here.  Some guys are just dumb. Sorry guys, but it’s a true story.  They just are not perceptive of when or how to make that first move.  But I will tell you one thing, If they wait too long, the time will pass and it will be forever gone. Read more

When is the right time to go in for the kiss?

Couple shares their first kiss
I honestly don’t know what is worse, a guy going in for the kiss too soon or not going in soon enough. What I do know, is that if a guy comes into the personal space territory when he is not wanted there yet, well that can be a big problem. Barf. It’s totally weird for everyone, including the people that happen to witness it.  At least the bystanders got a good laugh out of it, the two people involved, not so much. Read more

Fleeing the Friend Zone

Girl rejects kiss from her friend
It’s the age-old debate: Can you get out of the friend zone? And more importantly, how do you stay out of the friend zone? I could write an entire novel on this subject, but I’ll try to keep it short and proactive for those of you stuck in the eternal hell that we call the “friend zone.” Here are my tips on how to stay out of this zone, as it’s much easier to stay out of it than leave it (unless, of course, you’re Billy Crystal in When Harry Met Sally). Read more