Tag Archives: improve sex

3 Things you’re not doing but should to improve your sex life

Let me guess. Your sex life is great, but it could be better, right? I think everyone feels that way. Sex is super, but very few people feel like true experts. From my conversations with friends and clients, it seems like even when people want to improve their sex live, they’re not quite sure how to. They think you have to be open to crazy different sex or at least really flexible to switch things up and make an improvement. Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case at all. I have three very easy things that could improve anyone’s sex life. Read more

Ask Emily: How to get Comfortable with Going Down

Hi Emily, I’m 24 years old and the guy I’m dating is my first sexual partner—so I’m a newbie at everything but I’m pretty open to learning and trying new things. I know he really wants me to give him a blow job, but I don't know how! I have a ton of fear around it. I really want to try it, but I can't get over that scared feeling I get when I think about doing it, partly because I don’t know what I’m doing but also because I want us both to enjoy the experience. What can I do to get over the fear and become more comfortable with giving him a blow job? And how can I make it a good one? Read more

Your Hips Don’t Lie: How to move for better sex

a woman in her underwear
Instead of falling into the old-in-out, try these alternative hip movements to get into a more pleasurable groove on with your partner. As Shakira put it, “your hips don’t lie!” And I’m pretty sure Shakira is good in the sack. Luckily, you don’t have to be to be Shakira to be good at sex. You just need to learn how to shallow thrust, swivel, and screw. Read more