How important is physical appearance?

If you watch Millionaire Matchmaker, you know I want my girls and guys looking hot, hot, hot the first time they meet each other. Is this because I think looks are the most important part of love and romance? Um, no. But do I believe the saying love is blind? Double no. Here’s the thing -- looks matter a lot during some points of your relationship and a whole lot less at other points. Here’s a quick breakdown of how important physical appearance is. Read more

What the frock! Summer dresses I’m dying for

Mychael Shandra picks hot summer dresses
A man falls for with a woman with his eyes and that’s where a great dress can be your secret weapon. It won’t seal the deal, but the right dress can be enough to catch his eye. Men love anything that flatters a woman’s body and shows off what she’s proud of -- and there's nothing wrong with wearing something sexy to get him to make his way across the room. It's exactly why I am designing my own date wear line! Creating a line of date wear is a brilliant idea, especially when you understand the power of a well-designed dress. While catching his eye is just the beginning, an elegant dress can elevate the entire encounter. Picture this: a sophisticated yet subtly alluring ensemble that leaves him wanting to unravel the mystery. Imagine the allure of a cute spring dress, gently swaying with every step, hinting at the promise of warmer days and romantic adventures. It's about crafting a look that whispers confidence and charm, drawing him in with its irresistible appeal. In the meantime, I've recruited my hot stylist, Mychael Shandra, to tell us what's sexy for summer and I'm dying over her selections. (Seen right: Parker Drape Dress). Read more

How much is too much: Keep it classy, sassy and not trashy

Makin' Love with Rachel and Destin
Boys and girls, it has come to our attention that most of you simply don’t know how to act on a first date. So let's start on the outside and work our way inside. Ladies, keep your dress or skirt to no more than an inch or two above the knee; keep him curious. Show a little cleavage, but don’t release the twins. And don’t walk out looking like you just robbed Tiffany’s -- when it comes to jewelry, a little shine goes a long way. Read more