Tag Archives: dating

3 Ways to know he’s Mr. Right based on his apartment

The early stages of a relationship are so exciting that sometimes it’s hard to tell what’s really going on. You can’t think straight when you have those new love butterflies buzzing around. And when you add in all of the mind-blowing honeymoon phase sex, your best judgment is a goner! So, if you’re wondering if you’re dating your true Mr. Right or just another Mr. Right Now, here are some clues on how to figure that out based on what his apartment is like. Read more

The Number One Illusion in Dating

“Light and airy.” “Let's keep things fun.” I did that one time. I dated someone like that. They would always tell me, “I just want things to be fun. I just want to laugh.” I said, “Great! Sounds wonderful. I'm all about having fun.” I'm all about laughing. Read more

5 Things single girls need to do to find a man in 2018

You’re still single and you’re sick of it. I’ve been there, sister! I’m not shy about admitting that. There’s no shame in wanting to be in a relationship. If that’s what you want and you want it this year, you’ve got to get your ass in gear to make that happen. Relationships don’t just magically appear out of nowhere. It takes a lot of work to make yourself ready for a relationship and to make yourself an attractive option for a man. So, if you’re dead set on getting into a relationship in 2018, here are five things you need to do right away. Let's find a man in 2018! Read more

In the wake of Harvey Weinstein, is dating at work changing?

More than 50 women have come forward to accuse Harvey Weinstein of sexual harassment, assault and rape. Standing up to their predator was brave, heroic and ultimately more inspiring than anyone could have possibly imagined. Thanks to the Weinstein accusers’ courage, countless women have come forward about the workplace abuse they’ve endured. You’ve probably read about the splashier stories in industries like politics, media and tech, but the Weinstein effect has seeped its way into all industries, all around the world. Administrative assistants, farm workers, hospital employees and many, many others are finding their voices and finally feeling empowered enough to point their fingers at workplace predators. Read more

Why you should never get drunk on first dates

It’s no secret that I run a tight ship with my company. And I don’t just mean with my employees. I’m really strict with my clients, too. I have a lot of rules my clients have to agree to follow if they want to work with me. And one of the rules I get the most pushback on is my two drinks or fewer first date rule. I especially get resistance on this one from women. But, I never budge because getting drunk on first dates is such a no no in my books. Here’s why. Read more

What to do if your friend’s boyfriend is too good for her

This whole blog post is a major breach of girl code. I’m well aware of that. But, I felt like I had to write it after I was a guest at a lovely dinner party where I was seated next to a couple where the woman was terrible to the man. She berated him in front of me, a total stranger, was competitive with him and was totally boring while he was a dreamy conversationalist. After the party, I sent a gossipy text to my host asking about this couple and she responded that she was so conflicted about that couple. Read more