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She Put A Spell On Me

Annie Lennox put a spell on me.

Jimi Hendrix.

Singer, songwriters, musicians, poets, novelists, have been writing about love for centuries.

It’s got to be the number one topic.

She Put A Spell On Me

She Put A Spell On Me

Listen to a song and you can hear the heartbreak. Listen to a song and you can hear about love. We all try to describe that magic moment when a boy meets a girl.

That moment when you fall for each other. A couple of “hey’s.” She put a spell on me.

Lost in love, Air Supply.

Same Old Lang Syne, Dan Fogelberg.

There are so many songs.

It’s endless. No one has ever figured it out. That’s the beauty of love.

That moment when two people, two strangers meet, and it happens.

No one has been able to figure out how and why it happens.

Think about it. You’re going about your everyday life. You’re walking around and you’re getting coffee. You’re checking out a yoga class. You’re having conversation with a friend. You’re texting somebody, and then all of a sudden…

You walk into a restaurant, and there he is.

You look at him and he looks at you, and there’s this moment, like everything seems to stop. Everything seems to cease in that moment.

You walk over. You smile. He smiles back at you, and the next thing you know, boy meets girl.

Triple “hey.” You put a spell on him.

We don’t know what it is. Why two souls can all of a sudden find each other and feel like they’ve known each other forever.

It’s an amazing feeling. It’s the feeling that we all crave, desire, and want.

Some of us are very lucky, and we’ve had this happen to us quite a few times in our lives. Other people have never had it happen. And that’s where it comes down to being.

How open are you to receive love?

If you are an open center of being, and you’re an open center of receiving love, then love will find you. You know why?

Because loves always finds people who are open, wide open.

My entire life, I’ve always believed that I can meet someone amazing. It’s always been my mindset. I’ve never been shut down to a relationship.

There are times in my life that I haven’t desired a relationship. But whenever I make the decision that I really want a spectacular, amazing relationship, the universe will deliver it. I’ll have that magic moment.

I’ve been this way since I was 16 years old. It’s a mindset and a belief system that I’ve instilled in myself.

I’ve met many people that will walk around and say they want a relationship but they never seem to meet the right person.

I’ve met many people that have never really been lucky in love. They’ll even tell the universe that they don’t feel lucky in love. So of course the universe will deliver exactly what they ask for.

They will tell the universe that there are no good people out there. Nobody really wants somebody like them, and they must have missed their chance. I heard that, especially from my mother, many times.

I’ve never said that, and I’ve always found amazing love in my life.

I know the person, the skeptic in you, will say well, if you found amazing loves in your life, how come you’re not married right now and why are you single at this present moment?

Some love lasts a short time, some love lasts a long time, and very few of us find a love that lasts a lifetime. But if you keep going and moving, you’ll find love will occupy your time.

You’ll find love that will allow you to grow, blossom, learn, be inspired, and to inspire others.

You’ll find it in your friendships. You’ll find it in your romance.

Because it’s believing. As Huey Lewis says, The Power of Love.

If you believe that it’s going to find you and you believe that love is abundant, you’re not going to settle for relationships that don’t serve you.

You’re not going to settle for relationships that don’t inspire you.

If you truly believe that you are an amazing, loving being, then love will show up, as it always does.

It will show up on that random Friday afternoon in September.

It will show up on a cold, wintery day, when everybody is so shut down, and all of a sudden love shows up, in the parking lot of the local supermarket.

It shows up in all the most unique places, and it does that because love has no timeline and no boundary. It only delivers to the people who actually believe in it.

The question is, right now, do you believe in love? I think that’s a song. I know that’s probably a book, and it’s even been a movie. But do you believe in it?

If you truly do believe in love, no matter what your age, love is going to knock on the door and it’s going to show up.

Believe it, because in my entire existence on this planet, I’ve always believed that love will show up. Sure enough, when I’m ready for it, when I’ve gone through whatever transformation, whatever necessary lesson that I needed to go through, or whatever work I needed to do on myself, love has shown up.

When I was ready to love and be loved again, it would show up, as if by magic. But we know it’s not magic, because I manifested it, and I made it happen. You can too.

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