Every woman needs to clear out the pipes once in a while. If you’re not ready for a relationship, casual sex can work. It’s called "friends with benefits" for a reason -- you like the guy, there’s a physical attraction and you have fun together. The benefit is the easy, unattached sex without the regular needs and requirements of a relationship. It’s an arrangement that can be great for those who don’t want to sleep with multiple partners in order to get a little action. It’s all the fun and play without the deeper needs of a relationship... in a perfect world.
Blame it on Danny Zuko and Sandra Dee from Grease
-- or virtually any other Hollywood summer fairytale that has all of us wired to love (and long for) a fun summer fling.
After all, a season that combines gorgeous, shimmery skin and simple clothing with warm weather and fun outdoor fetes practically begs us to plant a kiss on someone.
Back and forth. Back and forth. The never-ending cycle of breaking up and making up and breaking up again is almost always a bad idea. Here’s the thing and the rule of thumb -- there’s a reason why you broke up in the first place. Why would you want to go back?
No matter how great the sex was, is it worth the drama? Ladies:
No matter how much you don’t want to be alone, do you really want the zero over the future hero?
I got dumped. And let’s face it, ice cream binges and drastic haircuts are never the best way to get a fresh start.
That said, with the next season of Millionaire Matchmaker
filming in just a few short weeks, I had to get it together. I took down our pictures, threw out his cards and called my best friend. In true Ashlynn style, she showed up with wine and a game plan.
We are so happy to be here!
You all know us as Patti’s left and right hand on Millionaire Matchmaker
, but did you know that we are also the bread and butter in the REAL business, Millionaire's Club?!
Yes, we not only help run the company, but we also have clients of our very own and are TRUE matchmakers. How do you like them apples?!