I was reading some magazine where some very old-fashioned relationship “expert” was talking about being embarrassed hearing about how some women talk dirty in the bedroom. She was saying how she believed women should still be “ladies” and that the media was trivializing sex. Here’s the thing…
There is NOTHING wrong with being sexual. There’s nothing wrong with being a little naughty. Anyone who tells you otherwise is plain backwards. Human beings are sexual creatures. It’s part of our natural make up and we should be able to express that however we see fit (as long as it doesn’t interfere with others.)
Personally, I love being with a woman who is open sexually. I love women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually, and who isn’t scared to let her kinky side out. I respect that a great deal in women, and the majority of open minded, well-grounded men will too. To be honest, most red-blooded males will flat out adore you for it!
In fact, I guarantee the more you embrace your inner naughty girl, the more you open up sexually, and the more you let go of your inhabitations, the more you’ll enjoy life, and the better connections you’ll enjoy with men
In fact, I guarantee the more you embrace your inner naughty girl, the more you open up sexually, and the more you let go of your inhabitations, the more you’ll enjoy life, and the better connections you’ll enjoy with men. It’s great to enjoy the odd naughty text with your lover. It’s amazing to dress up and try out some role-play with your lover. These are all perfect ways to keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom. Sex is the glue that holds great relationships together, and if you try to hold back your naughty side, you’re holding back who you really are as a woman.
So how do you open up if you’re currently a little “conservative?”
The first thing you want to do is to figure out what you enjoy sexually. Think of your past lovers. Think about the men who satisfied you the most. What did they do that you enjoyed? How did they make you feel? How comfortable are you letting out your naughty side? Are you open sexually? What would make you enjoy sex more?
You should never feel like you have to hold back in the bedroom. If you’re with a man who can’t keep up or handle you, then he’s not the right man for you.
This is a super powerful exercise because it helps you understand your inner sexual being. That way, when you meet your next lover you’ll know exactly who you are sexually, and you’ll know what makes you feel good. Knowing what turns you on allows you to show your partner what makes you feel good. Half the time women aren’t satisfied in bed, not because men don’t know how to please them, but because women don’t know how to tell men what they need.
The message here really is this…
Never feel like you should hold back in the bedroom, just because of what someone in the media says, or because you’re with a guy who is really conservative in the bedroom. Sex is our birth rite. You owe it to yourself to enjoy it as much as possible. Remember, never change who you are for someone else. Doesn’t matter whether it’s sexually or anything else. If the man you’re with is afraid of your inner sex kitten, they’ll be a ton of men ready and willing to take his place!