Category Archives: The Sex Files with Emily Morse

Top 10 Sex Podcasts in 2013

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Thanks everyone for making this the best year of Sex with Emily yet. I couldn't do it without all the amazing (and sexy) porn stars, experts, and courageous men and women who shared their sex and relationship stories with me. And of course I couldn't do it without my listeners. Read more

How to have better sex in 2014

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Who needs traditional New Year’s Resolutions when you can check off “sex in a random bar bathroom” from your bucket list? You need some fun goals in 2014 to balance out your respectable adult goals to become a more organized, put-together person. Life isn’t a dress rehearsal, so get naked and start living the life you want in 2014. Here are some fun and sexy things you should add to your goals for 2014. Let the relationship and sexual resolutions begin! Read more

Sex With Emily’s Holiday Gift Guide

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I know you’re scrambling to find the perfect gift for the special man or woman in your life. Since I give advice all the time about how to make relationships run smoothly, I can also advise you on how to make your holidays run smoothly with the perfect gift. One question I’ve been getting a lot recently is, “Emily, can you help me think of something to get my (lover/spouse/crush) for (fill in holiday)?” And I say, “Of course I can help you!” For all of you who’ve asked, I’ve put together a list of some of my favorite holiday gift ideas. And no, they aren’t all sex toys, although you might see a few sprinkled in here and there. After all, it is a sexy time of year! So why not get the right gift this year that will ensure good loving all around.  Read more

Emily’s Secret to a Stress-free Holiday Season

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Bet you can guess what it is! Stress, stress, stress! It’s barely December and everyone around me is getting all wound up about the holidays. Where to go, who to see, what to buy, what to wear; it’s enough to make me want to crawl into bed and bury myself under the covers. Which, ahem, is actually my Secret to a Stress-free Holiday Season. Read more

5 Ways to Tell if Someone’s Good in Bed

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People ask me all the time for ways to tell if someone’s good in bed. In fact, I just got this email from a listener in Houston:   Dear Emily, Do you have any tips for figuring out if someone’s good in bed before you sleep with them? The reason I’m asking is because there’s this guy at work who I always thought was really hot, but he had a girlfriend. Well, the other day he came over to my desk to specifically ask if I was going to happy hour on Friday. Then I found out he and his girlfriend had broken up! Now I can’t stop thinking about sleeping with him and I’m dying of curiosity. Are there any clues that might help me even though I only see him in an office? Read more

5 Different Kinds of Orgasms Women Can Experience

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I know what you’re thinking: “Different kinds of orgasms?!? I just want to orgasm, period.” The most popular questions I get asked from women time and time again is, “what’s wrong with me? I can’t orgasm during sex.” Nothing is wrong with you. Only about 30% of women reach orgasm during penetration alone. It can be challenging for many women to have orgasms with a man’s penis alone (sorry, guys). Read more