10 Reasons To Dump Him

woman contemplates 10 reasons to leave her man
To dump or not to dump? If that’s the question bouncing around your brain, you’ve come to the right place. Here are 10 reasons you need to kick your man to the curb immediately. If any of these apply to you, run, do not walk, to the nearest break up conversation. Read more

Is Bad Sex ruining your relationship?

man frustrated by bad sex
There are many things in life that make me uncomfortable. Things like knowing someone at your dinner table under-tips, seeing more than three Bachelorette Parties in the same club or catching a person picking their nose in traffic…aggressively. But nothing makes me more uncomfortable in life than having to end a relationship because the sex is bad. Read more

How Do I Get Him To Like Me?

“David, how do I get him to like me?” I can’t tell you how many times women email this question, and it breaks my heart. You meet a guy. You think he’s great. He has the best resume you’ve seen in a while. He’s good looking, he has a good job, and he’s caring, but no matter what you do, you feel you can’t get him to like you. Listen to the original question again… “How do I get a man to like me?” Do you realize how weak that question is? What’s wrong with you? Do you really need to get someone to like you? Are you not likeable the way you are? Aren’t you an amazing, beautiful woman? Read more

Help, He Pulled Away! Now I’m In The Friend Zone!

stay out of the friend zone with these simple tests

Does this scenario sound familiar to you? You met a guy. Seems like a great guy. You get to know each other a bit. You start having sex. Things are going really, really well. You don’t want to get too excited but you start to feel like you’ve met someone special. Then, all the sudden, he sits you down and starts giving you that dreadful speech. You know what’s coming but you don’t want to believe it. “I think you're great…but I see you more as a friend,” he says. He’s pulled away, and now you’re in the friend zone. Read more

Make changes to take action in your life

September always feels like such a wonderful month to me. It ushers in a change of season from summer to autumn, retailers begin delivering fall clothing and for me personally, it signifies another birthday that is rapidly on it’s way. Today I celebrate my 37th birthday. Though it’s not as significant its predecessors sixteen, twenty-one or even thirty, it still resonates with just as much excitement as the rest. You see to me, birthdays are not about age or wrinkles, they are more about wisdom and how one has grown. For as long as I can remember, I usually spend the day before my birthday looking back and reflecting on what I have learned and how I can better myself as I go forward. In that continued tradition, I have looked no further than my own backyard to set up camp. Today I am on the rooftop of the London Hotel, arguably one of the best views in the city. At sunset, this easily becomes one of the most romantic places in West Hollywood. Definitely remember this as a perfect date spot! In order to get into the writing mood, I need two things: a good scenic view and a cocktail. Today, courtesy of the London, I am sipping on a “Ginger Blossom” while I take in a near perfect 75-degree sunset. Juices are now flowing. Read more

How to let go in the bedroom

Ladies… I want to tell you something I hope is going to change the way you feel about yourself in the bedroom. For some reason, the media has this stupid attitude towards women and sexuality. If a man is “wild” in the bedroom he’s a hero, yet if a woman’s “wild” in the sack she’s a whore. But here’s the thing… As women, it’s perfectly fine to let go in the bedroom. It’s fine to be direct, it’s OK to be sexy, and it’s perfectly acceptable for you to be vocal during sex. In fact, most guys love it. I know I love when a woman lets her hair down. When she’s a little kinky. Maybe even a little dirty. We’re humans, and we’re sexual beings. It’s how we’re created, and it’s something we should celebrate. The more you relax and let yourself go, the better your relationships are going to be. So here’s what I want you to do… Read more