Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

It’s Twitter chat party: Let’s talk about sex

Hey Tweeties! Today, I am answering all of your steamy sex and relationship questions! Me, my besties Rachel and Destin and my hot assistant Patia are hosting a chat party on Twitter and are ready for a big Q&A love fest. The hashtag of choice? #AskPatti. You don't want to miss it! You can start submitting questions now by commenting here or head straight to my twitter and I will answer them, chat with you and give advice. So, be sure to say what's on your mind. Plus, you may catch your tweeted question on the upcoming season of Millionaire Matchmaker premiering in the Fall. Remember, there's no such as a stupid question. Only sexy ones. Ready... set... Tweet! (Remember to use my Twitter handle and #AskPatti.) Read more

Summertime at casa de Pfaff

Makin' Love with Rachel and Destin
Summer is here at last… and boy is it a hot one! We live out in the fabulous LA Valley so it’s even more sweltering. It’s amazing how it can go from 85 degrees F in central LA to 100 degrees in the Valley! The question is what to do when summer is at its full glory? We have learned how to have fun in the sun in the most creative of ways -- especially when you have a toddler! Let’s talk about your home. We all know that when the pavement is melting, the last place you want to be is outdoors. How about turning your pad into a cool beach oasis? Read more

Keeping in touch with an ex

We all know looking for the one is no easy task. It can happen in the blink of an eye or could take eons. During your quest for love, you’ll cross many speed bumps. These speed bumps are your exes. Right for you at the time, but not right for you forever. A lot of times when we dissolve a relationship, both parties move on to bigger and better things, continue new adventures and go on their merry ways. Every now and then, there are hangers -- exes that need to be EXterminated. Sure, you could be friends with your ex. Maybe you were friends before you even got together, but is that really advantageous to your quest for love -- to have that person always hanging around to potentially mess up your love energy? Read more

How and why to staycation with your lover

Rachel and Destin on a stay-cation with Sin Halo
Everyone needs a little break from the madness that we call life. Between matchmaking, movie making, TV filming and Sin Halo raising, we know all too well about needing some serious R&R! For most people, it’s tough to get away for a long period of time -- not to mention the tons of cash it takes. With a schedule that is all over the map, it's hard for us, too! So we like to go on staycations where we get away while staying close to home. Every staycation can be as easy breezy or extravagant as you like… or can afford. Here are some great ideas that Destin and I have done in the past. Read more

Surprise! I have a boyfriend

David and Patti filming Millionaire Matchmaker
The next season of Millionaire Matchmaker is mostly about my journey to adopt a child, but I've also started dating again. My mother finally said to me, "Why aren't you using your book?" I was hesitant to think it would work for me, because of being in the media but I had to take step back, just be me and take my own advice. So, I turned to Become Your Own Matchmaker, went through a dating detox and got off the grid for a while. I slowly started to join dating sites and then I met David. He makes my toes curl and I've never met a sweeter guy in my life. Read more

Adoption details: Why I want a boy and why I want to adopt American

Why I want to adopt
It's only semi-secret that the next season of Millionaire Matchmaker is flipping the tables on me and my team is setting me up on dates to find my perfect mate. I want to focus on me. I want to have a family. You guys are the first to know: I have a new boyfriend, and we've discussed the adoption. It's a possibility. It's not 100 percent. Nothing is 100 percent. Read more